Showing posts with label gratitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gratitude. Show all posts

Sunday, April 19, 2026

A writer’s prayer of gratitude

Thanks to the Divine Source of words where all words begin their journey into the world.

Thanks for the desire to write and for the imagination that reveals what I can’t see with my eyes alone.


Thanks for the curiosity to explore the world and the courage to embark on a journey into the unknown each time I pick up a pen.


Thanks for the strength to keep going even when I feel lost, and for the support of friends and family when things appear hopeless.


Thanks for words that find their way onto the page, and for the pen in my hand and the ink that fixes the words to paper.


Thanks for the paper and for the pages that I’ve filled with words over the years, never knowing what will come next or if anything will come at all.


Thanks for the new understanding that comes with each word, and for the thrill of discovering something I didn’t known before I began writing.


Thanks for the patience to sit with silence and for the determination to keep going.


Thanks for the hope that words can help us heal and bring us closer together.


Thanks for the pure joy of feeling my hand moving across the page and the sight of words that didn’t exist a moment ago.


Thanks for the proof that I am here each day, ink flowing from my pen, gratitude flowing from my heart.


Thanks for each word that brings me closer to the Divine Source of words where all words begin their journey into the world.

Sunday, March 16, 2025

Each day is like opening a book

Each day is like opening a book

and finding another poem

waiting for you


sunlight or clouds on the page

shadows or raindrops

the sound of the wind


the silence of snow falling

of clouds passing by

each morning a different poem


lighthearted or sad

a moody melody

a gleeful reprise


the moment you open your eyes

you can hear

the song of a new day


words filling your ears

sounds you never heard before

syllables that roll off your tongue


letters spilling onto the page

one after the other

a stream in flood


pulling you into the day

filling your lungs with air

with life, with gratitude


for whatever appears 

on the page

beneath your pen 

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Stepping Back into the Water


When I set off on my long-distance swim three months ago, I stepped into the surf and headed into the unknown water of brain surgery like a swimmer being carried by rapids over the steep falls ahead, hoping that I'd survive the drop and emerge safely in the calm pool of water below. 

Weeks later, the first time that I sat down to write after the surgery, my head still sore and my thinking still woozy from the fall, I felt lost in a fog bank, disoriented, not sure which way to go, or whether to go at all.

I held a pen in my hand but it felt like a foreign object. I didn't have the strength or energy to sit at my desk. I was disconsolate, wanting to write but not knowing how to get back into the water. It felt as if my depth-perception had changed. I couldn't tell the difference between shallow and deep water. 

For weeks I stayed on shore and watched other writers swimming, afraid to go into the water myself. I read a lot. I listened to books on tape. I was blessed with a loving wife and family who cared for me as I recuperated on shore. So many people called, sent get well notes and gifts. Friends drove over to keep me company. We drank lots of herbal tea, and we ate lots of homemade brownies and banana bread. 

When I started writing again it was to send brief notes of gratitude to the people who had done so much to help me recuperate and regain my strength and balance. Everyone's willingness to share stories reminded me of my own love of stories and of the magic of words to bring people together in mysterious ways. 

This is my roundabout way of saying thank you to everyone for the prayers and good wishes sent for my recovery. But it's also a note of gratitude to the many writers who I've never met but whose postings (on Facebook or Twitter or elsewhere online) and whose books have kept me afloat over the past few months. Even as I floundered on the shallows after the surgery, unsure if I'd ever have the strength or desire to write again, I sensed the shadow of your presence in the water as you kept writing, kept believing in the power of words and the magic of storytelling. 

I don't know what form wordswimmer's posts will take in the weeks and months ahead. Brief snippets of inspiration? Long letters of frustration and disappointment? Links to other blogs? Quotes to help us all stay in the water ?  I'll have to wait and see what the water feels like each week. Maybe I'll dive in. And maybe I'll prefer to stay dry and gather my strength for the next week's swim or the next. As Theodore Roethke writes: "I learn, by going, where I have to go."

Little by little I'm making my way back into the water, but it takes patience and time. My fingers remembering how to type. My brain remembering how to form words. My imagination remembering the pleasure of telling stories. What's important, most of all, is the intention to swim. 

I hope you'll keep writing. You never know how your words inspire others to stay in the water and keep swimming, but I can tell you that your words and stories matter. I know this because your comments and postings and notes and stories and poems have inspired me. 

The proof is here: I'm in the water. Swimming with words again. 

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Cash Flow

If you can say that you're doing this--struggling to put words on paper day after day--for money, raise your hand.

By now--whether you've only started the process or have been writing for years--you must know that few writers can support themselves on cash flowing from their writing alone.

And if there's only a trickle of cash flow from writing stories, there's even less from blogging.

So, why do we persist?

The reason, I suspect, is that on some level we know writing isn't about cash flow.

It's about the flow of words... of finding our way into that flow... and letting the words carry us on a journey to some place we've never been before.

This flow of words is as essential as air and water to a writer's well-being. That's because the act of writing is what gives our lives meaning (whether or not we receive payment for our work). It's through our struggle with words that we discover meaning.

Listen to William Stafford, whose book, Writing the Australian Crawl, is filled with wisdom on the writing process. In one of his essays, "A Way of Writing," Stafford, a sensitive poet and writing teacher, suggests:
A writer is not so much someone who has something to say as he is someone who has found a process that will bring about new things he would not have thought of if he had not started to say them. That is, he does not draw on a reservoir; instead, he engages in an activity that brings to him a whole succession of unforeseen stories...
Finding what we have to say, then, for Stafford and, I suspect, for most of us, comes about as a result of our receptivity to this process... of being willing to open ourselves up to what we don't yet know and cannot foresee ... until our pens begin moving across the page.

It's this notion of discovery that pulls me into the water every day, keeps me coming back to the page. And after more than a year of blogging on Wordswimmer, it's the same thing--the hope of learning something new--that draws me back to the computer each week to explore my feelings about writing and reading.

Unlike traditional journal writing, blogging offers the immediate satisfaction of sharing my weekly discoveries--if I discover anything--with other writers. And perhaps it's this ability to share and find immediate satisfaction in the act of sharing that attracts so many bloggers to this relatively new form of writing.

Blogging offers writers not only a chance to make "instant" connections, it also gives us the ability to form, if we so choose, an online community. Thanks to the internet, writers now can support each other daily (if not moment to moment), even though we may be invisible to each other, and even though we may work, for the most part, alone in our rooms.

This chance to share ideas openly--and freely--in support of one another is a valuable asset for a writer, even for someone like myself who values his privacy. By offering each other our insights into the writing process, we can help one another stay afloat when we step into the water to write each day.

Yes, we may work alone, but blogging reminds us that other swimmers can help us if we find ourselves floundering, just as we would offer help to another swimmer if he or she signaled for assistance.

Like most forms of writing, blogging doesn't require much cash flow to start or to continue, only desire, as well as a willingness to open one's heart each time we put words on the screen for others to read. Each post--this one included--feels like I'm sending a letter to friends (even if many of Wordswimmer's readers are people who I've never met).

Amazingly, each guest writer who has contributed to Wordswimmer over the past year has done so generously because, I suspect, each understands how a simple act of generosity can influence his or her own ability to write.

At its heart writing isn't about cash flow; it's about word flow. The more open-hearted and generous a writer is with his or her words, the more words will flow through him or her to others. That's the presumption here at Wordswimmer, anyway.

It seems counter-intuitive, I know. Most writers fear that examining the process too closely will deplete their well of words; their stories will run dry. But, no, it's just the opposite.

Generosity--and gratitude--are keys to writing. The simple act of sharing insights into our process helps each of us gain a better understanding of the craft. By helping other writers, we end up helping ourselves.

It's a circle, of sorts. Just as we take the time to help other writers learn their craft, the writers who we help can help still more writers, who, in turn, can help others bring more stories into the world.

We're all part of an invisible circle... swimming in a sea of words... together. You have only to open your heart to join the circle. Once you leap into the water, you'll be amazed at what you see that you hadn't seen before.

If you share your thoughts and feelings about writing (and reading), you'll find in time that your generosity will change the way that you feel about writing... and that will, in turn, change the way that you write.

Even more importantly, you may discover that writing for the sake of writing is where the true reward is to be found.

Monday, November 27, 2006

Writing (and Living) With Gratitude

The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. If you are attentive, you will see it. -- Thich Nhat Hanh
Have you ever noticed how sometimes, when we're given things, we aren't aware of the gifts until they're in our hands a while... or gone too soon?

Gifts like our ability to clasp a pen in our hands... or simply see words on a page?

Or like our imaginations... which help us transform words into scenes and images?

Or our willingness to take risks... and fail... and keep trying... day after day, year after year... until we get the words right?

What would life be like without these gifts?

And what would our lives be like without stories...or without friends who tell us stories ... and who listen when we have our own stories to share?

It's so mysterious, this process of living and writing, not knowing what comes next, or from where, waiting without losing hope that something will emerge from the mystery of light playing on the water.

Writing (and living) with gratitude helps, I think, keep us afloat as we keep swimming toward an unknown destination.

As T.S. Eliot writes in Four Quartets:
In order to arrive there,
To arrive where you are, to get from where you are not,
You must go by a way wherein there is no ecstasy.
In order to arrive at what you do not know
You must go by a way which is the way of ignorance.
In order to possess what you do not possess
You must go by the way of dispossession.
In order to arrive at what you are not
You must go through the way in which you are not.
And what you do not know is the only thing you know
And what you own is what you do not own
And where you are is where you are not.
Even as we struggle, like Eliot, to arrive at what we are not, we have so much to be grateful for in our lives... if only we open our eyes and see what we're given.

In Julia Cameron's Blessings, she writes:
A life of gratitude is built upon optimism, expectation, and attention to the good of every instant as it unfolds. This is not denial of adversity. Rather, the choice to consciously count--and encounter--my moment-to-moment good is a spiritual discipline. My trained optimism creates in me a stamina funded in the constant flow of minute but perceptible spiritual nutrients which fuel me, body and soul.
The next time that you find yourself struggling to find a way into a story, to reach a place where you are not yet... give thanks for whatever glimmer of light draws you into the process.

Whatever the sea gives you, accept it with gratitude.

For more information on writing and gratitude, visit these links:

http://www.wildlycreativewomen.com/articles_givegratitude.htm
http://www.patsymoore.com/bohemians/LC6.html
http://ezinearticles.com/?Dude,-Wheres-My-Gratitude?&id=238580
http://www.comadrecoaching.com/articles/10chispas.php
http://taipei.tzuchi.org.tw/tzquart/97winter/qw97-4.htm

And for information about a non-profit organization dedicated to encouraging gratefulness around the world, check out:

http://www.gratefulness.org/

PS - At this time of year, I'd like to offer a special note of gratitude to the many Wordswimmers--especially each month's guest swimmer--whose support over the past year has helped keep me afloat week after week.

Sunday, November 20, 2005

Thanksgiving: Reflections and Resources

Writing is a solitary pursuit but rarely a lonely one with books on our shelves as companions.

Each book offers a way out of solitude, a doorway into another world and insights into someone else's way of writing, and we can read and re-read their words to hear the voices that we need to hear whenever those voices call to us.

With Thanksgiving's approach, I'd like to offer my thanks to the many authors whose books I've found helpful (and whose voices have called to me) as I've thought about the writing process over the past four months.

I've turned to these works as I assembled my thoughts for Wordswimmer week after week, and I'm sharing them with you--along with some links that may prove helpful for further research--in the hope that you'll find these resources helpful, too

Many thanks, too, to all of you who have stepped (or dived) into the water over the past few months. Your presence and ongoing support have kept me afloat at times when I wasn't sure that I could make it back to shore. I'm deeply grateful for your presence.

In exploring together the difficulties, obstacles, joys and frustrations of writing, we help each other better understand our own writing process, much as Deng Ming-Dao suggests in Everyday Tao: Living With Balance and Harmony: "It is when you recognize in others the same human condition you experience that you are on the verge of knowing yourself."

I hope Wordswimmer has helped you find your way through unknown waters and that you'll keep swimming with us in the weeks ahead.

Resources for further study:

Blyth, R. H. Haiku, Volumes 1-4. Hokuseido Press. Japan. 1952. (For more on R.H. Blyth, check out http://home.att.net/~paul.dowling/archive/zen/blyth.htm as well as http://terebess.hu/english/haiku/blyth.html. And for an interesting site on learning more about Haiku, see http://www.haiku.insouthsea.co.uk/index.htm)

Burroway, Janet. Writing Fiction (5th ed.): A Guide to Narrative Craft. Longman/Addison Wesley, Reading, MA. 2000. (For more books from Longman, check out their website at www.awlonline.com. If you want to read more about Burroway and her work, check her out at http://www.janetburroway.com/)

Butler, Robert Olen. From Where Your Dream: The Process of Writing Fiction. Grove Press, New York, NY. 2005. (For more of Butler's insights into the writing process, check his website at http://www.fsu.edu/~butler/)

Disher, Gary. The Bamboo Flute. Ticknor & Fields, New York, NY. 1993.

Disher, Gary. Writing Fiction: An Introduction to the Craft. Allen & Unwin, Crows Nest, Australia. 2001.

DuFresne, John. The Lie That Tells A Truth: A Guide to Writing Fiction. W. W. Norton, New York, NY. 2003. (For more information about DuFresne and his thoughts on writing, check out his blog at http://www.johndufresne.com/Dufresne%20Blog.htm)

Hanlon, Emily and Holcomb, Claire. The Fiction Writers Blog: Articles, Writing Exercises, Prompts, and More... at http://www.thefictionwritersjourney.com/archives/blog.htm.

Hunter, Molly. Talent Is Not Enough: On Writing For Children. Harper & Row, New York, NY. 1976.

Keyes, Ralph. The Courage to Write: How Writers Transcend Fear. Henry Holt & Co, New York, NY. 1995. (You can read more about Keyes at http://www.ralphkeyes.com/)

Kuns, J. Irvin. While Your Were Out. Dutton, New York, NY. 2004.

Martino, Carmela A. Rosa, Sola. Candlewick Press, Cambridge, MA. 2005. (See Carmela Martino's website www.carmelamartino.com for more information about Rosa and the author.)

Ming-Dao, Deng. Everyday Tao: Living With Balance and Harmony. HarperCollins, New York, NY. 1996. (If you're in need of an inspiring thought for the day, check out these soul-boosters at http://www.spiritualityhealth.com/newsh/items/soulbooster/item_670.htm/
or some of Deng Ming-Dao's sayings at http://zaadz.com/quotes/authors/deng_ming-dao.htm/)

Myers, Walter Dean. For more on Walter Dean Myers and Monster, check out
http://www.northern.edu/hastingw/myers.htm/ and also http://www.teenreads.com/authors/
au-myers-walterdean.asp/
.

Park, Linda Sue. Project Mulberry. Clarion Books, New York, NY. 2005. (See Linda Sue Park's website www.lspark.com/index.html for more information about Park and her work.)

Paustovsky, Konstantin. Isaac Babel Talks About Writing. The Nation. March 31, 1969. pp 406-407. (This article is available online at http://www.nationarchive.com/Summaries/v208i0013_11.htm)

Salisbury, Graham. Eyes of the Emperor. Wendy Lamb Books, New York, NY. 2005. (For more information about Graham Salisbury and his previous books, take a look at his website http://www.grahamsalisbury.com/)

Sher, Gail. One Continuous Mistake: Four Noble Truths for Writers. Penguin Compass, New York, NY. 1999. (Gail Sher's website is http://www.gailsher.com/index.html)

Trueman, Terry. For more on Terry Trueman and Stuck in Neutral, take a look at an interview that appears at http://www.jubileebooks.co.uk/jubilee/magazine/authors/
terry_trueman/terry_trueman_interview.asp/
.

White, William. For more info about Gwishalaayt: The Spirit Wraps Around You, see Barb Cranmer, Nimpkish Wind Productions, http://www.movingimages.ca/catalogue/Art/Art_gq.html or the website for the First Nations at http://www.firstnationsdrum.com/Sum2001/Cult-Gwish.htm For more info about Musqueam Weavers, try http://collections.ic.gc.ca/musqueam/; for a description of William White's project with the museum, try http://www.moa.ubc.ca/exhibits/online_exhibits.php.

Wolitzer, Hilma. The Company of Writers: Fiction Workshops and Thoughts on the Writing Life. Penguin Books, New York, NY 2001.

Thanks again to all.

PS. Next post--Swimming Underwater--is scheduled to appear Monday, November 21.