Learning to accept criticism is a part of our job as writers—perhaps
one of the hardest parts of the job—but few of us are comfortable hearing
criticism of our work and often misinterpret it.
Rather than accepting as a gift the heartfelt comments of a reader who
may point out serious or not-so-serious problems in a narrative, we often bristle
and choose to dismiss the comments as irrelevant or, worse, hoping against hope
that the reader misread a passage or a chapter or the entire work.
All of us who write know it’s hard to listen to criticism,
even in the form of general observations.
We are as close to the manuscript under review as we are to our own skin.
All of the words, the images, the scenes and sentences and pages that have added
up over weeks and months are part of our psyche. They’ve emerged from our pens
and computer keyboards with painstaking effort, a daily outpouring of sweat and
blood and tears. That’s why it’s difficult, if not impossible, for us to view our
own work in a neutral, unbiased way.
But, as most writers come to realize, it’s in our best
interest, and in the best interest of our story, to listen to criticism rather
than ignore it. Whether accurate or
inaccurate, critical observations are a helpful way for us to gauge the true
shape of our story. Any criticism offers insights because it helps us better
evaluate how a reader responds to our work.
Criticism is actually another tool in our toolbox. It’s like
a magnifying glass that can identify and enlarge a manuscript’s strengths and
weaknesses so that we can see what we have done more clearly, and then revise
accordingly.
Listening closely to one reader’s opinion of the story gives
us a rare opportunity to measure our expectations for the story against the expectations
of a reader that were or were not satisfied.
A reader’s comments can help us pinpoint whether the
character evokes—or fails to evoke—a response, if the plot slows to a crawl or
races over an important part of the story. These kinds of comments can help us
recalibrate our aim so that the next time we shoot an arrow into the air its
arc is more likely to hit the bull’s eye.
Listening to criticism—and accepting it—isn’t easy for most of
us. But the more that we write and share our work, the more essential a tool it
becomes to measure progress on our manuscripts, to gauge where we think we are
and where we really are.
If we want to write, we must learn to accept criticism
without letting it throw us off balance. Our readers are trying to help us,
and, rather than interpret their comments as attempts to derail us, we might
thank them for offering us a way to stay focused and on track.
In the end, we may find criticism helps us discover the key to our
story in a place where we least expected to uncover it, so we can tell the story
that we’d hoped to tell when we first started writing it.
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